Love our enemies ?
One of the hardest lessons that I’ve had to learn zeros in on the wisdom found in Luke 6:27-28 “Love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you. Bless those who curse you. Pray for those who hurt you.”
When I was in the 7th and 8th grade, I was constantly picked on by a taller, bigger guy who we’ll call B. Unfortunately I had B. in several classes, and lunch period, and recess period. There was no getting away from him. This literally went on for several years. As you can imagine, this weighed heavy on my mind and heart. Every night during my devotional time I would plead with God to make B. stop. I even told my parents about it and asked them to pray the same thing. But day after day my circumstances did not change. I began to wonder “Does God hear me? Does God love me?”.
Well of course God heard me and loved me. It was because of His great love that he patiently and compassionately taught me a lesson. One day at the lunch table, I just happened to be sitting near B. He had already made a few negative comments to me in passing. But then B. looked into his backpack and realized that he forgot his lunch. “O man! I forgot my lunch” he said to many of his friends sitting around him. Now I wasn’t sitting that close to him but I did hear him. And as soon as I did, a strong urge and internal voice began to blair in my head. It said essentially, “Give him half of your lunch.”
You have to realize that B. and I had two years of bad history between us. I wasn’t even sitting that close to him. But that voice in my head was loud and would not go away. Reluctantly, I stood up, walked over to B. and gave him half of my lunch. I can still replay the entire scene in my head in slow motion. B. was speechless as well as both of our sets of friends.
Did God change my circumstances after my act of obedience? Actually he did. From that day on B. stopped picking on me. After two years of prayer and grief, a simple act of kindness brought resolution. However, God didn’t stop there. Several years later B. had an auto accident and was in a comma. That same loud voice told me I needed to go visit him and his family in the hospital. Now B. did not know that I was in the room, but his mother did. She said I was the only student from school that had come to visit him. I left a card and a balloon. In the card I mentioned that I was praying for him. B. eventually recovered but I never saw him at school again.
Several years later I saw B. again. He was working at a local amusement park. He actually recognized me first and ran up to me. He told me that he had been keeping up with me through others and new that I was involved in Christian ministry. He told me that he had become a Christian and that he appreciated me demonstrating Jesus to him.
Alright, so my story has a happy ending. Does mean that every person who hates you or curses you will suddenly have a change of heart if you show them kindness? Not necessarily. But have you tried? Have you been obedient to God’s word and applied Luke 6:27-28 to your situation?
Today if you ask someone on the street in America who their enemy was many would say something about the terrorists or Muslim extremists. How many people in Islamic societies have experienced the love of Jesus lived out among them? Have you thought about befriending a local Muslim family? Not for the purpose of converting them, but just to show them that God loves them?
God give us the strength to obey, even when it is hard, so that you can show up and receive the glory!
